It is all about the cycle of life. The period of time when you are restricted to your own self may result into being frustrated, depressed and agonized. Live up to it as it is the best possible time to discover yourself.
Tell you the truth, she’s not that good-looking. She doesn’t stand out in any way. Her clothes are nothing special. The back of her hair is still bent out of shape from sleep. The moment you see her, there’s a rumbling in your chest, and your mouth is as dry as the desert.. Sometimes in a restaurant you’ll catch yourself staring at the girl at the next table to you maybe just because she emanates with sensuality? But no one can insist that she’s the 100% perfect girl correspond to some preconceived type. All that you will remember for sure is that she was no great beauty.
A wish of triggering a conversation? Half an hour would be plenty: just ask her about herself, tell her about herself, and – what you will really like to do – explain to her the complexities of fate that have led to pass each other in a mall.. This was something sure to be crammed full of warm secrets, like an antique clock build when peace filled the world. Now, of course, you will recall exactly what you could have said to her. It would have been a long speech, though, far too long for it to be delivered properly. The ideas that come up are never actually lively.
At some point, every relationship comes to this fork in the road. Do you really want this? Is it worth it? You love everything about what is awakening you now, but you have some doubts. Do you decide to invest more into the relationship or is it time to walk and build up?
Doubt and disagreement are a natural part of partnership. This is the texture we need to keep things interesting; to learn and grow. It is rare that people completely compatible. There is always something that will disturb or irritate, whether it is a habit, interest, trait or all three.
Once upon a time, there lived a boy and a girl. He was not unusually handsome, and she was not especially beautiful. They were just an ordinary lonely boy and an ordinary lonely girl, like all the others. But they believed whole heatedly that somewhere in the world there lived the 100% perfect boy and the 100% perfect girl for them. Yes, to be a true man of action; she got to be a true lady.
Love is as critical for your mind and body not for the feeling but for the warmth it generates. It’s not negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected you are, the more you are at risk. It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression you are likely to be. Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don’t love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. Be focused on your goals, you shall be loved by those who will accompany you through out your tenure.
“The dog is the only animal who will come up wagging its tail, overjoyed with glittering eyes and look up towards you with its moist nose – form it knows that from deep within it shall be accompanying you irrespective of what you do.”
Love is a universal language present everywhere in any form or any living being. It’s a mixture of feeling, generosity and human culture. Love is beyond religion, caste, color, ethnicity, race or appearance. It’s all about how you gather your compassion and affection for an overwhelming feeling.
© Soovan Sharma Dookhoo 2014
Soovan Sharma Dookhoo 